So our trip took a dramatic shift in style as we decided to cross 14 miles of ocean and enter a different world. Morocco is the most diverse, dramatic and intense country I have spent time in. Do not go to Morocco for peace and calm, go for adventure and to be bombarded by experience because it touches every sense and leaves you feeling like a child; slightly vunerable but open and excited by all that is new.
In 4 weeks and without speaking the language you can only catch a glimpse of understanding of a culture and country; this is some of what I felt.
It seemed to me that in Morocco family and community life was geared more towards collectivism as appose to individualism and this applied equally to strangers. We found in many of the people an incredible warmth and hospitality that I hope to return to any wayward travellers who stumble into my future. We were welcomed into homes and lives, sharing sometimes intimately with customs, traditions and daily life. On the second day we arrived, we were taken to a wedding, treated like one of the family, and as is tradition danced and ate all night, whilst the bride, who changed into 7 incredible beautiful dresses throughout the night , was lifted on a throne; the goddess for an evening, above the drummers and dancers below. hee hee was a little more lively then your average british wedding. (who needs alcohol to let go eh)
In contrast to this we also stayed with a family mourning the death of a recent family member. The hospitality they showed two strangers as well as sharing openly with us their sadness but acceptance was incredibly moving. This plus many other encounters along the way made me and becky feel strongly the importance of love and friendship. That relationships really are the priority of life and that perhaps if we relearnt to focus more strongly on this then everything else we desire will follow.



